Couples therapy

For queer, neurodivergent, kinky & poly folx who want to fight less & fuck more

$300 per 50-minute session
75- and 90-min sessions available

Sessions available in Louisiana, South Carolina, Minnesota, Ohio & Delaware

Right now, it’s eggshells and “You don’t get me at all”


💥 Fights start over a read text and end with, “Why are you so sensitive?!”

💥 You “forgave” them. But the old shit keeps creeping back into every fight.

💥 You're exhausted from trying so hard and still feeling so far apart.

💥 You have a secret stash of kink quizzes and attachment reels. You watch them at 2AM, alone, and wonder if you’ll ever send one.

💥 Old patterns turn a single text into a blow-up about abandonment.

💥 You want more sex. Or less sex. Or different sex. And nobody knows how to say it without someone crying.

💥 You finally said, “What if we opened things up?” They made a joke to escape. Now everything’s tense and weird.

What it could feel like instead

💖 Fights happen, but no one sobs in the shower or tiptoes around for days

💖 You understand what's actually happening underneath the fight instead of arguing about the dishes for the 82nd time

💖 You say the scary thing. They lean in instead of pulling away

💖 You finally send the kink quiz. They’re into it (OMG!), and you’re already planning next Friday around Question 17

💖 You actually repair. Not just "move on." Real repair.

💖 You feel like real teammates again

And the sex? 🔥 🫦

When safety goes up, when we make sex fit YOU… ufff. Toes curl.

That first-date electricity? ⚡🔥

It comes back when you stop fighting with each other and start fighting for each other.

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You deserve so much more than “Try date night!” while you’re bleeding out emotionally

Meet Katherine Wikrent, couples therapist

Therapist. Professional overthinker. I’ve fucked up a relationship or two 😬

I used to be the person rewriting a text 47 times, spiraling out about if I said the wrong thing, walking on eggshells, and having an entire argument in my head before my partner even walked in the door.

I know what it’s like to love someone deeply and still get stuck in the same. fucking. argument. time and time again.

Hear me when I say NOTHING is too taboo in our work together: ADHD and autism dynamics. Sex. Kink. Resentment. Communication 404 errors. Mismatched needs. Not even knowing what your needs even are. Threesomes. Non-monogamy and poly life. Being unsure of the relationship. Infidelity. All the weird shit that happens when complex humans build a life together.

Because you deserve a relationship that feels SO. FUCKING. GOOD.

👉 More about me and my therapy approach, or...

Therapy for your actual relationship

Together we'll:

🔧 Break the conflict cycles that keep you in the same old fight

💬 Communicate when one of you shuts down and the other explodes

💖 Rebuild trust after hurt, betrayal, infidelity, or years of misunderstanding

🖇️ Repair the stuff you’ve been tiptoeing around

💗 Make each other feel safe instead of walking on eggshells

🤔 Decide what kind of relationship you actually want, and either fix it or leave it with clarity

🧠 Understand how trauma, attachment, 👉ADHD or autism, family history, and stress are shaping your relationship

🔥 Build hot intimacy that feels safe, exciting, and so much fun

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Let’s talk about sex!

Sex is one of the most common topics in couples therapy.

And absolutely NOTHING is too taboo:

  • Wanting more or less sex than your partner

  • Kinks and BDSM

  • Needing emotional safety first

  • Wanting different sex

  • Not knowing what you like sexually

  • Opening a relationship

  • Poly boundaries & group sex

  • Pelvic pain

  • Sexual trauma

  • Shame

  • Jealousy

  • Avoidance

  • All of it

Nothing is too awkward. Nothing is too weird.

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My couples therapy approach

I blend practical tools with deep relationship work.

That means we aren't just learning better communication.

We're changing the patterns underneath it.

Whether you're monogamous, 👉 ENM or polyamorous, kinky, queer, neurodivergent, or some fabulous combination of the above, you won’t have to educate me about your life to get started.

My work draws from:

  • Attachment & emotionally focused therapy (EFT): Stop “Do you still love me?” from feeling like a ticking bomb

  • Somatic & mindfulness approaches: Because your body decides if your partner feels safe before your brain does

  • Family systems therapy: So your partner stops paying for what your ex, your parents, or middle school did

  • Concrete communication tools: Quick, usable strategies when a level 10 fight hits

I also have deep experience supporting:

Choosing the right session length

Every relationship is different. So are the conversations we're having.

We'll decide together what makes the most sense. You're never locked into one session length forever.

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75 minutes (recommended)

The sweet spot for most couples.

Long enough to slow down, understand what's underneath the conflict, and actually repair instead of stopping just as things get productive.

Great for:

✨ Most couples and polycules

✨ Communication struggles

✨ Recurring conflict

✨ Intimacy work

✨ Repairing and rebuilding trust

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50 minutes

Best for:

✨ Lower-conflict relationships

✨ Skill building and communication practice

✨ Ongoing maintenance

✨ Weekly sessions

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90 minutes

Ideal when life (or your relationship) is especially complicated.

Often the best fit for:

✨ High-conflict moments

✨ Polycules and multiple partners

✨ Opening a relationship to ENM

✨ Infidelity recovery

✨ Major life decisions

✨ Partners traveling or coordinating multiple schedules

Let's see if we're a match

Here’s how to book a free 15-minute phone consult. No pressure, no sales pitch. Just a quick call to see if we click.

  • Go to my portal: https://glitterspace.sessionshealth.com

  • Click “I’m a new client”

  • The portal will automatically select the Free Telephone Consultation option

  • Pick a time that works for you

  • Enter your contact info and click “Send Request”

And you’re set! I’ll confirm your request and call you at the time you chose