Couples therapy for queer, polyamorous & kinky partners
Helping you find joy & pleasure on YOUR terms
$175 per 50-minute session
Sound familiar?
💥The fights are never about what they’re really about. They start with a text left on read and end with someone screaming, “Why are you so sensitive?!”
💥 You said you forgave them. Swore you did. But somehow, every fight circles back to that thing they did.
💥 You have a “favorites” folder of kink quizzes and reels on secure attachment. You watch them at 2AM, alone, and wonder if you’ll ever send them even one.
💥 You finally worked up the nerve to say, “What if we opened things up?” They laughed. You cried. Now things feel tense and weird.
If you’re reading this and thinking, “Yep, that’s us,” you're not broken or doomed.
You're just long overdue for a better way to do things.
Let’s stop pouring fuel on the fire and start getting the fun spark back.
What it could feel like instead
You don't have to settle for just "fine." Let's get your relationship to a place where:
💫 You still fight, but no one ends up sobbing in the shower or walking on eggshells for three days. You repair, reconnect, and learn something.
💫 You used to beg for connection. Now, it’s just there. You feel like an actual team.
💫 You brought up the hard thing. And instead of shutting down or blowing up, they actually heard you. No deflection. No guilt trip. Just growth.
💫 You finally send that kink quiz. Not only are they into it, but you’re already planning next Friday around Question 17.
💫 You said, “I'm feeling jealous and I hate that.” They didn’t freak out. They asked, “What helps you feel safe and okay?” You sob from relief.
This is the love you deserve to enjoy. Let’s get you there.
How I help
This isn’t therapy where I lean back ask how that makes you feel while you bleed out emotionally. Nope.
This is therapy for couples who are done pretending “date night” is going to fix what’s actually wrong: a breakdown in trust, communication, or emotional safety.
We’ll work together to give y’all the tools you need to:
🔧 De-escalate fast, before it turns into a three-day grudge match
🔧 Repair the damage. The thing you've been avoiding talking about but is beneath every blow-up
🔧 Communicate when one of you shuts down and the other blows up
🔧 Make each other feel safe instead of walking on eggshells
🔧 Decide what kind of relationship you both want, and how can we fix it, or leave it, with clarity and kindness
My approach
I draw from several proven couples therapy schools to give you help you enjoy your queer, poly, kinky, neurodivergent or cross-cultural love.
Attachment-Based & Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT): Figure out why “Do you still love me?” feels like a ticking time bomb
Somatic & Mindfulness Tools: Help your body feel safe with your partner, sex & intimacy
Family Systems Therapy: See how old roles turn one forgotten text into a blow-out about abandonment
CBT, Skills-Based, and Communication Tools: When you just need something simple that works mid-fight
👉 Psssst… I also bring experience working with neurodivergent couples. Learn more about my ADHD approach
Start enjoying your relationship instead of enduring it
The fights, the silence, the weird tension you both feel but can’t name. It doesn’t have to stay like this.
Let’s talk. Book a free, no-pressure 15-minute consult to talk about how therapy can help you find your way back to each other.
Here’s how it works:
Click my name, Katherine Wikrent, in the scheduler
Choose “Initial Consultation – No Charge”
Choose “Video Office”
Pick a time, fill out your info, and hit “Request Appointment.” Boom.